The Gentleman Series | 3: He Must Not Be Physically Abusive
This needs to be said. I am anti-physical abuse, before, during, and even after a marriage. It is simply thuggish, bully behavior that should not be tolerated. Besides which, you cannot put the words "gentleman" and "physical abuse" together. It is contradictory.
In short:
The Quintessential Nigerian Gentleman is
NOT Physically Abusive
